Navigating Boundaries in Blended Families

[Aura22]

Hey guys! Okay, so lately I've been thinking about something that's been a bit challenging in my family life and I could really use some insights.x My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and he has a 6-year-old son from his previous marriage. We get along really well and everything is usually cool, but lately I've noticed some bumps in the road trying to navigate this whole blended family thing—especially when it comes to boundaries and responsibility. For example, last weekend my boyfriend's ex suddenly changed plans last-minute, so we had to cancel our weekend getaway because we needed to take care of his son. Of course, I completely understand that his son is a priority, but sometimes it makes me feel a little sidelined or like my opinion matters less. To be clear, I absolutely adore his son and want to support my boyfriend fully, but sometimes I wonder how much say I have in decisions that obviously affect my life too. I'm curious how others have handled similar situations. How did you guys balance being supportive of your partner's parenting responsibilities with maintaining your relationship and making sure your own boundaries and needs are respected too? Also, what's the best way to communicate without sounding like I'm complaining or selfish? I definitely don't wanna cause drama, just trying to keep things chill and fair for everyone, you know? Any advice or personal experiences would genuinely be appreciated! Thanks fam.